Learn to Read and Use Body Language to your Advantage!
Eye Contact is Critical
Body Posture
Make your body posture an inviting and friendly one by turning your body towards the target, using slight tricks to show interest like leaning forward, but only slightly! It has also been shown that just slightly tilting your head or nodding with a smile goes a long way in showing attraction. A major thing to avoid is crossing your arms, which is a strong signal of 'not interested' and will most likely send your target away.
Stay Cool
Never follow your target around all day, as this will only show that you are desperate, and is most probably already indicative of the fact that your target is simply not interested in you.
Touching
Touching can be a powerful tool to send strong messages. Briefly touching your target while conversing, or accidental touching while passing a loaf of bread or something can be strong messages of interest. Your hands should be open and free, not stuffed into your pockets, or clenched tightly in a fist. You should also keep your hands relaxed, as this is indicative of you being a calm person, nervous tapping and fidgeting is definitely a bad sign.
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Eye Contact is Critical
The more you establish eye contact with your target, the better. First you should perform a few quick glances, ensuring that the target has noticed them. Then you can step it up a notch and establish direct eye contact. A good trick is to quickly look away once the target glances back at you, as this provides a sense of embarrassment on your part, which may very likely intrigue your target into approaching you. Don't forget to smile during these glances. Conversely, if you are not interested, then simply avoid eye contact with the target, as this will reveal a definite lack of interest.
Body Posture
Make your body posture an inviting and friendly one by turning your body towards the target, using slight tricks to show interest like leaning forward, but only slightly! It has also been shown that just slightly tilting your head or nodding with a smile goes a long way in showing attraction. A major thing to avoid is crossing your arms, which is a strong signal of 'not interested' and will most likely send your target away.
Stay Cool
Never follow your target around all day, as this will only show that you are desperate, and is most probably already indicative of the fact that your target is simply not interested in you.
Touching
Touching can be a powerful tool to send strong messages. Briefly touching your target while conversing, or accidental touching while passing a loaf of bread or something can be strong messages of interest. Your hands should be open and free, not stuffed into your pockets, or clenched tightly in a fist. You should also keep your hands relaxed, as this is indicative of you being a calm person, nervous tapping and fidgeting is definitely a bad sign.
©Copyright 2009 Find My Pair. All Rights Reserved.